FAQs

After checking out the site, you might have some questions (and not questions of the advice variety).  So I posted some common ones that I’ve received below.

QUESTION:  Why don’t you have a picture up?  I want to see what you look like!

TREY SAY:  Good question.  I guess I want to be a man of mystery.  Either that, or I don’t need to have crazy “fans” accosting me on the street who disagree with my style of advice.  Just know that I’m a 6’2 205lbs black male with a great smile, chiseled arms, and rock-hard abdominals.  I’ll leave the rest to your imagination.

QUESTION:  How often do you post new columns?

TREY SAY:  I usually post new columns every Friday.  Your best bet is to click on the Subscribe link on the right-hand side of the page, so you can always be the first to read my new stuff.

QUESTION:  I heard a rumor that you’re writing a book.  Is that true?  If so, when will it become available?

TREY SAY:  Yes, the rumors are true.  I am working on a book that should be ready for purchase soon.  I’ll be sure to provide more information once the appropriate time comes.

QUESTION:  I really want to send you a question, but how will I know that you won’t put my real name on blast?

TREY SAY:  Because on the question form (found below) I ask for a fake name, that’s how.  I won’t know what your real name is unless you’re silly enough to include it.  However, I understand that mistakes do happen, so feel free to send me another message stating that you included your real name by accident, and I’ll be sure to modify it for you.  The Golden Rule that I adhere to as an advice columnist is to keep my readers’ names private to save them from any undue embarrassment.  I haven’t put anyone’s real name on blast yet, and I don’t plan to in the future, so just trust me.  Really.