Archive for July, 2009

Sistas 101

This question comes from Holly in Albany, NY.  She writes,

QUESTION: I’m a white girl that is close friends with a black man.  We went out to dinner a couple of nights ago, and there was a group of black women that kept giving me dirty looks.  He’s a very good-looking guy and is very successful but we’re not even dating so I don’t understand where all of the hostility is coming from.  Can you enlighten me?88623725 Read the rest of this entry »

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Michael Vick opinion

TREY SAY: For those of you that don’t know, I’m a huge sports fan – and like most red-blooded American men, I love me some NFL football and cannot wait for September to roll through.  One of the biggest stories in football today is the Michael Vick saga.  Unless you live under a rock, you should know that he’s the disgraced NFL star that got released from federal prison for dog-fighting.  Many people are saying he should never play football again, but here’s where I come out on this:mike vick Read the rest of this entry »

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What’s For Lunch?

This question comes from Steve in Atlanta.  He writes,

QUESTION:  Trey, I’m at my wits end here.  I work for a small company with less than 20 employees, and my cubicle is right next to this guy that eats the nastiest smelling fish every day for lunch.  Not to mention, when he microwaves that foul sh*t, anything else you put in there tastes just like it.  For example, I brought in leftover pizza for lunch yesterday, and after I put it in the microwave, it tasted like someone rubbed fish guts all over it.  On top of that, he’s a sarcastic, condescending, bastard.  What can I do about this?  I want to tell my boss, but she’ll probably think I’m being a baby.  I can’t take another day of it.87142033 Read the rest of this entry »

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The Big Dilemma

This question comes from Mike in Houston.  He writes,

QUESTION:  Here’s a simple question for you.  What’s worse, a skinny girl that thinks she’s fat, or a fat girl that thinks she’s skinny?56294949 Read the rest of this entry »

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Failed the Test

This question comes from Tim in San Diego.  He writes,pha220000048

QUESTION:  Me and my buddies went to Tijuana for some partying recently, and I got really drunk.  That in itself isn’t newsworthy, but I ended up having sex with a hooker.  Anyway, a week later I went to my doctor and found out that I tested positive for Gonorrhea.  That’s bad enough, but I have to break the news to my fiancee that just returned home from a European business trip.  She wants to have sex with me, but I’ve been a good guy and turned her down.  Any advice on how to handle this situation? Read the rest of this entry »

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The Ex-Factor

This question comes from Ethan in Portland, OR.  He writes,jealous

QUESTION:  I’ve been dating a girl for about 3 years now, and she’s perfect in every way – except for one thing:  she still keeps in touch with a serious ex-boyfriend.  Now, I’m not the jealous type, but some of the correspondence they have creeps me out.  For example, when they talk on the phone, she ends the call with “love you!” and she signs her emails to him with “hugs and kisses.”  Be real with me…is her behavior f*cked up or am I overreacting? Read the rest of this entry »

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The Black Sea

This question comes from Jessica in Long Beach, CA.  She writes,

 77130238QUESTION:  Hi Trey, please help me with something.  I’m a white girl that’s dating a very smart, good-looking, and athletic black male (he played football for a major university).  I love going to the beach, but he hates it.  When I finally dragged him there one day, he went into the water and damn near drowned.  He also said that he refuses to swim again.  Should I dump him if he can’t take part in something that I love to do?  Is his horrible swimming a personal thing or a black thing?  Help! Read the rest of this entry »

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And You Say She’s Just a Friend…

This question comes from Dawn in Las Vegas.  She writes,85257722

QUESTION: Can you answer something for me?  I had an argument about this with one of my female friends, and I want you to be the tie-breaker.  Is it possible for men and women to be just friends?  My answer is yes, but my friend Katie says absolutely not.  What do you think? Read the rest of this entry »

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Game On

The next question comes from Nikki in Marina Del Rey, CA.  She writes,83604521

QUESTION:I have a boyfriend that loves videogames and literally plays them all of the time.  Other than the obvious problem that he never pays any attention to me, he’s also 32 years old!  Shouldn’t he grow up?  It’s ruining our relationship. Read the rest of this entry »

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Lip service

78231707This question comes from Pete in Philadelphia.  He writes,

QUESTION: I can’t believe that I’m writing to you, but I need some advice on something.  I recently met this girl at a bar.  She’s really nice, cute, funny, etc. – but once I saw her in the light of day, I noticed that she has a hairy upper-lip.  This girl could be so hot if she just waxed that damn thing, but I know I’d offend her if I said anything.  What should I do? Read the rest of this entry »

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Keep it Up

This question comes from Greg in Santa Monica, CA.  He writes,

QUESTION: I’m 26 years old and I’m man enough to admit that I’m not a stallion in the sack.  That being said, one of 76123803my buddies told me that I should use Cialis before I have sex with my new girlfriend, so I got some free samples from my doctor last week.  All I can say is that Ron Jeremy would be envious of my sexual skill-set now, and my woman says that I’m “the best she’s ever had.”  My question is, should I keep using the stuff and continue my studly ways?  I just don’t want to have any long-term health issues by using it.  Your thoughts? Read the rest of this entry »

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