LeBron’s Big Decision

TREY SAY: “Decision 2010″ had nothing to do with politics, government, or an election.  Instead it was all about a NBA player deciding what team he’d like to play for next season.  Celebrities of all kinds (including the leader of the free world, President Obama) made their pitches to LeBron James about the NBA city he should call home, and there was even a one-hour ESPN special about it. Of course I have thoughts about this, and I’m here to share them with you now.

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East Coast vs. West Coast

This question comes from Julie in upstate NY.  She writes,

QUESTION: I have a dilemma on my hands. I’m 22, and will be graduating college next week. I have two job offers on the table, one is in Los Angeles and the other one is in Boston. They both pay the same salary, but I don’t know what to do.  Should I move to Boston where all of my friends and family are (but the weather is super cold)? Or should I move to LA where I don’t know anyone, but the weather is great?  I’m also single and would like to move to the city that has the best men to choose from.  What should I do?

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Bluetooth Guy

This question comes from Rich in San Diego. He writes,

QUESTION:  There is a dude at my gym who always wears a Bluetooth earpiece AND sunglasses while he’s working out.  He is a complete douchebag and tries to act really important. For example, last week he said, “Yeah baby! Looks like we just closed another $100,000 deal!  Woot!  Woot!” I plan to kick his ass the next time we cross paths, and I’m asking you to change my mind.  Go for it.

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Advice from Mom

This question comes from Ricki in FL. She writes,

QUESTION: Hi Trey, over the weekend one of my girlfriends told me that she received a letter from her mother when she was 25. Basically the letter said that there will be times with her partner (boyfriend/husband) where she’ll need to take one for the team (i.e. either have sex when she’s not in the mood or give him a blow job).  Of course this is true, but is this a message that mother should give to her daughter?  Eww…

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White Girl Booty

This question comes from Paula in Washington DC. She writes,

QUESTION:  Hi Trey, I love your work!  I’m a white girl, and I have a question about black guys.   I am very happy with my body, and I like to believe that I have an athletic build.  Anyhow, for whatever reason – a lot of black men find me attractive.  They keep telling me that it’s because I have a “fat ass.”  I don’t know any woman who would be flattered by having any part of her body be called “fat,” but they insist that it’s a compliment.  What’s up with that?  I’ve never been with a black guy before, but since I’m not having much luck with white guys, I think I might try.

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Child’s Play

This question comes from Shelly in Houston. She writes,

QUESTION: I have a 17 year old daughter, and yesterday I came home early from a business trip and walked in on her having sex with a 19 year old boy.  I’m mortified, and I don’t know what to do. All I know is that the moral fabric of our country has gone to hell ever since Obama came into office.  If Sarah Palin was president, my daughter would have someone to look up to and I wouldn’t have this problem.

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Not-so-Big Ben

TREY SAY: Sex scandals in the sports world are not rare. Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, and other sports superstars have dealt with the wrath of fans and the media due to their indiscretions.  Recently, another sex scandal involving a superstar athlete hit the airwaves involving the two-time Superbowl winning Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback, Ben Roethlisberger.  And yes, I have an opinion on it (don’t I always?)

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Bills, Bills, Bills…

TREY SAY:  Healthcare, healthcare, healthcare.  It’s all that everyone is talking about right now.  Depending on the side of the fence you’re on, this new Bill is either really bad news or really good news – and you know that I have an opinion on all of this, so here goes.

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The Tiger Woods Show

TREY SAY:  This is it!  The Tiger Woods press conference we’ve been waiting for! Three long months of anticipation all for…………………………this?  Wow, talk about a letdown.  Here are my thoughts on it.

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100 Posts!

TREY SAY:  Wow, can you believe it?  This is post number 100!  We’ve talked about a lot of topics during my first eight months on the job.  Sex, relationships, celebrity foolishness, racism, revenge, you name it.  But I want to use this opportunity to talk about something much more important.

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What Women Really Mean to Say

This question comes from Mike in Los Angeles.  He writes,

QUESTION:  I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now, and I never know what the hell she’s thinking.  For example, she asked me what I wanted for Valentine’s Day, and I said a gift card to Best Buy or Home Depot would be cool.  When I asked her the same question she replied, “I don’t really want anything this year.”  Did I just get off easy or is she sending me mixed signals?

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Your Mind is a Wasteland

TREY SAY: I’m about to say something really surprising:  John Mayer is a douchebag.  Wait…that’s not really surprising, is it?  Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably heard the racist comments in his recent Playboy interview – and just like always, I have an opinion about them.

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Child’s Play

This question comes from Henry in Dallas, TX.  He writes,

QUESTION: I have a dilemma. I would like to get a Valentine’s present for my significant other, but I’m not exactly sure what to get. She’s beautiful, funny, has a great personality, and is very nice. The problem is that I don’t want my wife to find out that I’m buying a present for my significant other. Yes, I’m cheating…and the girl is 16 and I’m 32, but she’s great in bed and looks like she’s 26. Am I a scumbag for thinking about what Valentine’s gift I should give to my mistress instead of my own wife?

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Super Sunday

This question comes from Shelly in New Orleans.  She writes,

QUESTION: Super Bowl Sunday is my favorite day of the year, and it’s probably not due to the reasons you’re thinking of.  I absolutely hate football and all sports, for that matter.  Seriously, what is compelling about a bunch of meathead losers running around in spandex?  My boyfriend and I are going to watch the new Channing Tatum movie Dear John, while the game is on and we’re both so excited.  While all of the idiots in this city are watching the Saints play, we’ll have the whole theater to ourselves.  Why aren’t there more men out there like my boyfriend?  The world would be a much better place.

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Super Dilemma

This question comes from Jack in Los Angeles.  He writes,

QUESTION: I need your help, Trey.  I’ve been emailing back and forth with a hella hot chick I met on the internet.  She lives in Indianapolis and is a big Colts fan.  We’ve never met in person, so I’m thinking it might be cool if I surprised her and flew out to Indy today to watch the game on Sunday. I have a lot of money, so I can do these things.  So what do you think?

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